In Hebrews 13:2 we read, “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” Yesterday’s sermon focused mostly on how that changes our perspective on inviting people into our homes or to share in other parts of our lives. But what about hospitality as a church family? Are we eager to share our church home with strangers? What would that even look like?
We all get in conversations in public all the time – in line at the store, or interacting with our hair stylist, or chatting with a waiter or waitress, or making small talk while picking up your kids. It actually doesn’t take much to turn the conversation toward church. You could ask the person how long they’ve been in the area, or you could mention what you were doing this past weekend, or you talk about some conversation you had with a friend from church. And then just ask, “Hey has anyone invited you to church lately?” This is a question where a “no” answer, is actually a positive development – then you can tell them where and when The Source Church meets.
Our culture has wired us to bristle at the suggestion of being so forward about “religion”. So let’s address some concerns:
Q: Might the person be offended? What if they look disgusted and say, “I’m actually a Muslim” or “Umm, definitely not interested. I’m an atheist and I think Christians do horrific things.”
A: Not a problem! Then there’s an opportunity to talk about that. Or just say, “Oh I see. Well, you’re always welcome.”
Q: Yeah, but what if it totally spoils the interaction and any future contact I may have with that person?
A: This is an eternal soul that needs to be exposed to God’s life giving words. Surely out of love for a fellow human, and for Christ (who deserves to be known and honored!), we can grow in taking awkward and potentially painful risks. Let’s pray for right perspective!
Q: What if they ask me questions that I don’t know the answer to?
A: There’s no need to be insecure about that! Just say, “That’s a great question! You should check out our church website, or email Pastor Victor or Pastor Scott!”
Q: What if I’m really shy and I just don’t like talking to anyone, at any time?
A: Certainly some people are more talkative than others, and certainly this “hospitable” lifestyle is more intimidating for some than for others. The demand isn’t to become a super sociable person. The aim is to become a person of few but important words!
What better reason to stretch yourself than to point others to Christ? He is with you in this challenge – for your joy.